Love

 "It's only a beautiful thing. This is all the unexpressed love. The grief that will remain with us, yknow, until we pass. Because we never get enough time we each other, right? Um, no matter if someone lives till 60, 15 or yknow 99. I hope this grief stays with me. It's all the unexpressed love."

- Andrew Garfield

I assume we need to just do a better job of expressing our love then. Our culture doesn't exactly allow for the language to even know how to start. It's funny how particular things that people say in passing, kind of latch on to your ear and randomly haunt you

He said something that stung. But I feel like I've been raised to give people the benefit of the doubt.

It does kind of make you wonder, about whether the best way to honor someone is to just deal with things with the grace and patience that they would 

Like "does it matter"

Does this one sentence that feels a bit denigrating actually matter in the grand scheme of life 

Probably not 

Is it love to let it go

To let everything, every petty stupid thing, go

Probably