silence is not golden

sometimes you have to let her cry. there is something so noble about the act of crying, cleansing yourself of the hurricane that is raging through every vessel of your being. stop talking for once and let her cry, let her scream, let her revel in her own misery
and be there for her to hold her hand, don't ridicule her. don't belittle her struggles and make her feel ashamed of her feelings
don't act like youre the only one who has suffered and grown from it. if you want her to grow, let her, hold her hand and watch her grow
don't pretend everything is okay, save your empty words for another day
let her cry, let her scream, let her be in the moment that is now
don't tell her to get over it, because there is value in the very it that she is trying to get over
leave her alone. but don't.
when she can't feel the fingers on her hand, let her feel yours

take off the stupid glove, she has nothing to hide from you so don't make her